nothing is more exhausting than living in skin that doesn’t fit you. nothing feels heavier on your spirit than pretending to be something that you’re not. nothing starves you more than giving energy to false versions of you. nothing is more beautiful than your authentic self.
inconsistency is poison. i have no interest in consuming what you have to offer if it comes in waves.
darling, many things will make their way back to you, but that doesn’t mean that whatever returns is meant to stay. you don’t have to make a warm bed for anyone that once left you cold.
don’t get so wrapped up in other people’s journeys, that you forget that your path deserves unique footprints of its own. don’t get so absorbed in other people’s stories, that you forget that you are a vast book with empty pages waiting to be written.
i no longer extend arms for those who don’t want to be caught. no longer make myself visible to those who dirty windows in my soul.
darling, this healing comes in waves. on some days you will drown, and on other days you will float. on some days you will feel broken, and on other days you will feel renewed. be patient with yourself.
i had to strip my soul naked of peoples opinions so i could soak in my truth. now i swim free of guilt and love full. nothing can drown me.
selfless woman;you ever get tired of breathing life into people that fill your lungs with poison? you ever get tired of massaging people’s egos with your tongue? it is not selfish to want more of you than them.
never let sadness build a home inside of you. allow its unexpected visits, learn from it while its there, but then open the door and slowly let it out. sadness deserves no permanent resting place in your heart.
build the foundation of your relationship on vulnerability. that ‘i can talk to you about anything and not be judged’ kinda vibe.
i don’t like;forced conversations,forced interactions,forced friendships,i simply,do not force things.if we don’t vibe,we don’t vibe.
there will be times when love requires you to shed old skin and embody something new. you can recreate your love as many times as you need.
a love, that never gives up. a love that finds ways through mazes and roadblocks. a love that always stays even when home feels so far away.
she takes mental vacations. she disappears once in a while to reclaim herself. you need to understand how her energy works.
falling in love sounds dangerous. i’d much rather grow in love. go upwards, water each other as we go, build a love that uplifts us both. we don’t have to build a love that is idolized on movie screens. we can build a love that speaks language only we understand. a unique love. a love with no pressure. a love where we enjoy each other. a love where we overdose on each other’s smiles and get drunk off our love.
no cliche good morning texts. send her affirmations to get her day started. talk to god about her for a few minutes. feed her soul with light and plant flowers in her mind. remind her of her undying divinity.
darling, while you’re praying for someone who mistreats you to change their behavior, you are someone else’s prayer. shift your energy from those you know don’t deserve you. wish them well, thank them for the lessons, and unpack your soul in spaces that celebrate you.
i hope you find a lover who starves their ego and feeds their love for you. a lover who loves unashamedly, and allows you to love yourself. i hope you find a lover who lets you exist. a lover who loves you, but lets you be. a lover that keeps you close, but allows you to breathe. i hope you find a lover that finds joy in your being. a lover that celebrates your existence. a lover that speaks to god about you.
you can forgive someone and still want absolutely nothing to do with them. you can create distance from someone with no resentment attached. love and attachment have nothing to do with each other. i can love you just as intensely from a distance. there’s no mileage on my love. some connections require space to survive. some need to die in order to be reborn. some connections need to be released, for you to breathe.
darling,never disrupt your blooming process to water someone else’s garden. you’ve worked too hard on yourself to compromise your growth for anyone who doesn’t grow you.
inconsistency is poison. i distance myself from the “here today, gone tomorrow” kinda people. my energy is not at your disposal.
hold her tightly on days when love escapes her, kiss her deeply on nights when love is foreign, love her softly when her world becomes hard.
one of the most beautiful things you can ever learn, is to stop fighting and chasing after people who don’t want to stay. no ones absence should ever cause an absence within yourself. you were fine before them, you’ll be even better after them. the universe is always removing things from your life to test your will to grow. love for yourself must be the only thing that remains.
january, be a catalyst for me. let intuition be my compass, and let my soul be unafraid to grow wings and fly in whatever direction the universe calls me. let the seeds i’ve planted come to fruition, and let the love i have for myself show others how i deserve to be loved.
you deserve to vent in spaces that don’t drown your voice out when your soul speaks. you deserve to cry in spaces that don’t look at your tears as weakness. you deserve to retreat into solitude without your silence being viewed as malicious. you deserve judgment free connections.
a lover who doesn’t try to calm the oceans inside of you. a lover who knows how to swim in the waves you give off.
my growth comes with no apology letter attached to it. it comes with no honey coated words and actions. it comes with no guilt or regret. i’m grateful for anyone i left behind, because your absence helped me find more of myself.
she was misunderstood, she didn’t burn bridges. she simply destroyed the path for anyone who doesn’t deserve her energy to reach her.
if my love doesn’t stay, that doesn’t mean there wasn’t any love at all. if i’m all about me now, that doesn’t mean i was never all about you. i’m pouring what i poured into you, back into me.
darling, the way people leave you, the way they exit your life, the way they leave their relationship or connection with you, is all the closure you need. find clarity in actions, not words.
don’t stop your blooming process just so they can catch up to you. you’ve outgrown them for a reason. keep blossoming upwards.
your love language will be understood by those fluent enough to listen and reciprocate. it’s not your duty to teach people how to love you.
you can forgive someone and still want absolutely nothing to do with them. you can create distance from someone with no resentment attached.
stop apologising for the days when you don’t have the strength to smile. the days when silence speaks better for you. swim in your truth.
you are enough, just as you are. you dont have to live trying to prove yourself to people committed to misunderstanding you.
you are too divine to put up with a lover who hesitates their love for you. you are too divine to be an afterthought, and not a priority.
sometimes the most powerful intentions are silent. ones where you don’t have to say a thing. ones where your actions reveal where you stand.
you are worthy of love, just as you are. you dont have to change anything about yourself to receive the love you deserve.
let your wounds be testimonies. let your healing be magic. let your growth be beautiful.
stop mourning versions of yourself that doesn’t exist anymore. stop mourning dead connections that have no room for growth.
stop looking for peace in old wounds. reopening them, won’t heal you.
learn to let things go. if a connection has withered away, embrace it. you can’t water a dead flower & expect it to grow again.
at a stage in my life where consistency is more important than intensity. i’d rather know your energy is true even at its lowest.
a lover who doesn’t try to calm the oceans inside of you. a lover who knows how to swim in the waves you give off.a lover that tries to understand your love language. a lover that never gets tongue tied when expressing their feelings for you.a lover that never hides. a lover with passion you never have to question. a lover that always meets you halfway, regardless of the journey.
stop feeding connections that don’t feed you. stop spending so much time filling others, while you starve of love. you are deserving too.
the strongest ones bleed in silence, have no one applauding their growth, have no one watching their healing process. they bloom silently.
stop spilling your thoughts to people who don’t even want to see you grow. stop sharing your emotions and feelings with deaf ears.
at a stage in my life where growth is a staple food. i need to be growing, progressing, shifting. i need to be better than i was yesterday.
you will never find me where my energy isn’t appreciated. you will never find me planting my roots in places that don’t support my growth.
as you soak in self love, you’ll notice distance forming between some you were close to before. embrace that natural change. feel no guilt.
i have no desire to be with someone who completes me. i’d rather be with someone that shows me there is more to me than i even knew existed.
there will be days when growth will feel uncomfortable. there will be days when the clothes that once fit your soul will need replacing.
i appreciate effort. no matter how small, silly or irrelevant, i appreciate effort.
it’ll take a certain person to appreciate the beauty in your mind, and glow in your soul, you can’t give everyone pieces of your gold.
don’t let ego block you from acknowledging your blessings. anyone who taught you something about life, or about yourself, was important.
appreciate anyone who sticks around during your healing process. appreciate anyone who is patient enough to learn your scars.
there are some people who will only love you for the way you love them, and forget your needs. cut them off, you deserve better.
i don’t force things anymore. what flows, flows. what crashes, crashes. i only have space and energy for things that are meant for me.
what i like about her is that she blooms whether you water her or not. whether you give her light or not. she exists without your existence.